serious (NSFW) content warnings for this one and there's been so much discourse around it, but I did find it extremely compelling to read (in wincing horror) while waiting at the doctor's office. two snapshots of the discourse that I thought were interesting as well:
even more insane content warnings for NSFW language/discussion in this one. this one is only for the true internet sickos, but it adds a lot of nuance.
this one barely made it through because I don't think the content is very interesting, but it does have a phenomenal title and I am an avowed McMansion Hell fan